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    I gave up dating,love,relationships,sex etc.

    I am a 22-year-old kissless virgin, I have been bullied from Kindergarten to 10th grade.
    - I used to be nice, now I am mean.
    - Now I am aggressive.
    - I don't smile anymore.
    - I am much meaner to women, I pull bug pranks on them, I make fun of them.
    - I feel extreme envy of couples being cute/affectionate.
    - One time, I was playing truth or dare with some friends/acquaintances, a girl asked me "have u ever french kissed a girl?" I replied:" Only a peck on the lips", then some guy asked me mockingly if I am a virgin. I honestly felt like I wanted to keep punching both of them till they bleed.
    - Today I saw my crush , I felt that she doesn't like me at all, but I now treat her like a pile of garbage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ibn.AL.Muqafaa View Post
    I am a 22-year-old kissless virgin, I have been bullied from Kindergarten to 10th grade.
    - I used to be nice, now I am mean.
    - Now I am aggressive.
    - I don't smile anymore.
    - I am much meaner to women, I pull bug pranks on them, I make fun of them.
    - I feel extreme envy of couples being cute/affectionate.
    - One time, I was playing truth or dare with some friends/acquaintances, a girl asked me "have u ever french kissed a girl?" I replied:" Only a peck on the lips", then some guy asked me mockingly if I am a virgin. I honestly felt like I wanted to keep punching both of them till they bleed.
    - Today I saw my crush , I felt that she doesn't like me at all, but I now treat her like a pile of garbage.

    That is very sad. But also understandable.

    Women claim they are not like that, but they are-- they are like that.

    And men suffer for it.

    However, I will give you a good piece of advice. Learn to live for yourself. For your own goals and interests and do not let some piece of tail ruin your day-- ever.

    If you need some pussy, go rent it. It's cheap and has the benefit that it goes away when you're done.

    Then go back to doing whatever it is that *you* want to be doing.

    If you truly want a woman, she will appear when you least expect it-- as long as you are not looking for her. When she does. Be aloof, but not too aloof. Do not drop everything for her. Do not dance to her tune. Do not bow at her feet. That is the absolute worst thing you can do with a woman. She will lose all respect for you for doing it. If you ask HER she will say that's exactly what she wants. But if you *DO* that, she will drop you like a hot rock. Because she wants somebody she can fuck with and try to "fix". Don't let that be you. The more she can control you the less she will respect you. But you don't have to be an asshole either. And that's a hard point for most guys to figure out and "get".


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    Kinda young to be giving up, aren't ya? As for being aggressive, that may not be a bad thing; you're not going to achieve any goals without aggressively pursuing them. I've done some of my best work being pissed off at somebody and out to prove them wrong.
    Looks like I picked the wrong week to quit sniffing glue!

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    Aggression is good but you need to channel it into your independence and self-reliance.

    I'm not saying become a hermit but hold your own.

    People will give you advice, they generally mean well, but making hard decisions independently is how you grow as a person.

    In the beginning you won't have confidence to make decisions, so you will rely on others.

    The stronger you get, you will make decisions more independently.

    The hardest thing is to balance your independence while also having friends/family and a social life.

    Taking into account your interests as well as their interests.

    When you meet girls, she has her interests and you have yours.

    You can't force your interests on her, but you can't be a slave to her interests either.

    It is a dance and negotiation with sexual tension etc.

    Like any negotiation, you have to be willing to walk away.

    Also don't chase women.

    Men don't chase women, men chase success, women chase successful men.

    "Success" means different things to different people.

    But every man has dragons to slay.

    When you achieve things will you find that women become attracted to your confident aura and strength-of-character.

    Right now you achieved nothing, it's all just a game of braggarts and clowns trying to convince the girls that he's not a scrub.

    Scrubs chase women with their faggoty silk shirts and spend $80 on drinks for nothing.

    "Men" open up their shop at 5am in a snowstorm.

    "Men" work on their bills and paperwork at night.

    "Men" have tools, resources, contacts and valuable experience.

    If a woman ask a man to buy a drink he will say, "Why? Who are you?" She will burn will shame and want him even more.

    This is when you realize that you are the prize and not her.

    See, women can have sex easily but they can't have relationship easily.

    They can let scrubs fuck them, but they can't get what they really want.

    They come, you say "What you have to offer me? Only pussy? That's not good enough."

    Other guys show up with silk shirt and free drinks.

    You show up with aura of a man with accomplishments.

    You are not little boy or scrub who buys free drinks or pays women.

    Because you know what you are worth.

    Would James Bond pay a college girl $20 to suck his dick?

    No, cuz he is James Bond, he jumps out of airplanes and kills people for a living.

    She should pay HIM $20 AND suck his dick AND say "thank you so much, I will never forget this honor."

    Understand your worth.

    I see these guys, older guys, who have been thru so much, who have so much value.

    They been thru blood and tears and have skills out the ass.

    Paying some street trash for company.

    It makes me want to vomit.

    It's like the president paying a homeless man to give him autograph.

    It's embarassing, what are you doing, don't you know who you are? Don't you know what you're worth? She should be paying you.

    But anyway, yeah I understand.

    Sometimes for practical reasons its better to "rent."

    You don't pay hooker for sex, the sex is free, you pay hooker to LEAVE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dubs View Post
    Aggression is good but you need to channel it into your independence and self-reliance.

    I'm not saying become a hermit but hold your own.

    People will give you advice, they generally mean well, but making hard decisions independently is how you grow as a person.

    In the beginning you won't have confidence to make decisions, so you will rely on others.

    The stronger you get, you will make decisions more independently.

    The hardest thing is to balance your independence while also having friends/family and a social life.

    Taking into account your interests as well as their interests.

    When you meet girls, she has her interests and you have yours.

    You can't force your interests on her, but you can't be a slave to her interests either.

    It is a dance and negotiation with sexual tension etc.

    Like any negotiation, you have to be willing to walk away.

    Also don't chase women.

    Men don't chase women, men chase success, women chase successful men.

    "Success" means different things to different people.

    But every man has dragons to slay.

    When you achieve things will you find that women become attracted to your confident aura and strength-of-character.

    Right now you achieved nothing, it's all just a game of braggarts and clowns trying to convince the girls that he's not a scrub.

    Scrubs chase women with their faggoty silk shirts and spend $80 on drinks for nothing.

    "Men" open up their shop at 5am in a snowstorm.

    "Men" work on their bills and paperwork at night.

    "Men" have tools, resources, contacts and valuable experience.

    If a woman ask a man to buy a drink he will say, "Why? Who are you?" She will burn will shame and want him even more.

    This is when you realize that you are the prize and not her.

    See, women can have sex easily but they can't have relationship easily.

    They can let scrubs fuck them, but they can't get what they really want.

    They come, you say "What you have to offer me? Only pussy? That's not good enough."

    Other guys show up with silk shirt and free drinks.

    You show up with aura of a man with accomplishments.

    You are not little boy or scrub who buys free drinks or pays women.

    Because you know what you are worth.

    Would James Bond pay a college girl $20 to suck his dick?

    No, cuz he is James Bond, he jumps out of airplanes and kills people for a living.

    She should pay HIM $20 AND suck his dick AND say "thank you so much, I will never forget this honor."

    Understand your worth.

    I see these guys, older guys, who have been thru so much, who have so much value.

    They been thru blood and tears and have skills out the ass.

    Paying some street trash for company.

    It makes me want to vomit.

    It's like the president paying a homeless man to give him autograph.

    It's embarassing, what are you doing, don't you know who you are? Don't you know what you're worth? She should be paying you.

    But anyway, yeah I understand.

    Sometimes for practical reasons its better to "rent."

    You don't pay hooker for sex, the sex is free, you pay hooker to LEAVE.

    Men have needs-- sex. It's much better to just go to a hooker, pay her to blow you (or whatever), get it over with, and then leave.

    No man should be beholden to a woman-- especially not for sex.

    Sex is the only thing that most women have to offer a man and so they try their hardest to make sure he pays through the nose for it.

    When you take that out of the picture-- there is precious little left she has to hook you with.

    And no, you don't *have* to pay for it. You're just simply skipping past a night in a bar talking about stupid shit with some moronic chick to maybe get laid at the end of the night.

    Fuck that. Just buy it, fuck it, forget it. And go on with your life.

    When the right woman walks through the door, you'll know it. And you'll be ready for her too because you won't be a fucking chump begging for her pussy.

    You'll be quieter, calmer, more aware, and better able to sit and enjoy her company-- no matter where it leads, even if it leads nowhere.

    And she will be more intrigued by you, more interested in you, more interested in trying to figure out what makes you tick because you aren't lapping it up and begging.


    If you can do without sex, fine. If silly girls in bars does it for you-- fine too. But if you want it and don't want the hassle, just rent it.

    Who the fuck cares? It's just sex.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ibn.AL.Muqafaa View Post
    I am a 22-year-old kissless virgin, I have been bullied from Kindergarten to 10th grade.
    - I used to be nice, now I am mean.
    - Now I am aggressive.
    - I don't smile anymore.
    - I am much meaner to women, I pull bug pranks on them, I make fun of them.
    - I feel extreme envy of couples being cute/affectionate.
    - One time, I was playing truth or dare with some friends/acquaintances, a girl asked me "have u ever french kissed a girl?" I replied:" Only a peck on the lips", then some guy asked me mockingly if I am a virgin. I honestly felt like I wanted to keep punching both of them till they bleed.
    - Today I saw my crush , I felt that she doesn't like me at all, but I now treat her like a pile of garbage.
    I'd like to suggest that you'd benefit greatly from youtuber Turd Flinging Monkey. He will explain in great detail what Mr. E has done so in a paragraph.
    Ephesians 5 "Husbands, Love your wives like Christ loved the Church". (Wives, give your husbands something to love).
    "Wives, RESPECT your husbands". (Husbands, give your wives something to respect.)

    For a man does not truly feel loved unless his wife, mother, and children display respect to him.

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    Are you giving up because you're embarrassed about being a virgin and resentful toward women for not putting out? Or is it a deeper realization about the nature of women and society?

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    The Honey Badgers just put this one up the other night...

    Honey Badger Classic 4: No Love for the Involuntary Celibate?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mr_e View Post
    Men have needs-- sex. It's much better to just go to a hooker, pay her to blow you (or whatever), get it over with, and then leave.

    No man should be beholden to a woman-- especially not for sex.

    Sex is the only thing that most women have to offer a man and so they try their hardest to make sure he pays through the nose for it.

    When you take that out of the picture-- there is precious little left she has to hook you with.

    And no, you don't *have* to pay for it. You're just simply skipping past a night in a bar talking about stupid shit with some moronic chick to maybe get laid at the end of the night.

    Fuck that. Just buy it, fuck it, forget it. And go on with your life.

    When the right woman walks through the door, you'll know it. And you'll be ready for her too because you won't be a fucking chump begging for her pussy.

    You'll be quieter, calmer, more aware, and better able to sit and enjoy her company-- no matter where it leads, even if it leads nowhere.

    And she will be more intrigued by you, more interested in you, more interested in trying to figure out what makes you tick because you aren't lapping it up and begging.

    If you can do without sex, fine. If silly girls in bars does it for you-- fine too. But if you want it and don't want the hassle, just rent it.

    Who the fuck cares? It's just sex.
    It's not the hiring of prostitutes that bothers me, it's just...argh.

    I can't put my finger on it.

    Men should develop contempt for anything women can offer sexually.

    What's she gonna do? Just lay there like a sack of shit.

    While you find a hole and fuck it.

    And for that you consider that she "provided" something to you?

    Jesus fucking christ, can the bar get any lower.

    The straw that broke the camel's back for me was recently.

    I was watching a video about bar girls in Thailand.

    And they had this girl on a platform, next to a pole.

    And she was shaking her ass.

    But wait, she wasn't.

    She was standing on a vibrating thing on the floor, and vibrated her body to make her ass go BLUB BLUB like jello.

    So these hoes

    They don't even have to learn to move sexy, they don't even have to learn to twerk or anything.

    Just stand on a vibrating thing, that some MAN, some low-paid guy in Thailand, built.

    While she just stands there like a sack of shit, with her ass going BLUB BLUB.

    And a bunch of foreign chodes, who already allowed their own country to get ruined in the name of women, now spend hundreds of dollars to get on an airplane, just to see this sack of shit standing on a vibrating platform.

    This drives me crazy.

    No this drives me into a homicidal rage.

    The level of fem worship.

    It's one thing to worship women and put them on pedestals when they actually make an EFFORT.

    When she actually bothers to conceal her chimpanzee brain and pretends to be a chaste woman of good character.

    Where she learns to dance and seduce you and spends time looking nice for you, picking out a nice outfit.

    Like a Geisha or old-timey courtesan.

    But now they just recruit these pigs out of a local village.

    And put them on a vibrating platform.

    For western simps to spend hundreds of dollars on a plane ticket.

    To come and pay them a few bucks for being on a vibrating thing.

    It's humiliating.

    Not for her, for the men.

    And for the record, no.

    Sex isn't the only valuable thing a woman can do for you.

    You can just wank and satisfy that "need."

    Unless sex provides something other than skin friction. Or access to a hole that you can create with your own hand.

    Like intimacy, the feel of another human being, etc. More of a romantic mindset than one of satisfying "physical need."

    Then I'd say, yeah, women are capable of providing something valuable.

    The human factor. The girlfriend experience. Etc.

    They can also bear children, and this I consider really the only thing men "need" from women.

    And the only civilizing influence on them.

    A woman without children is just a subhuman primate.

    Only when she becomes a mother, devotes herself to childcare.

    Only THEN she learns compassion, love (not for you, for the child) and becomes something you can honor.

    Birthrate is demographics, birthrate is politics, birthrate is nations and empires.

    Birthrate is business.

    It's the only valuable thing women can offer.

    Sex can be approximated with porn, lube and a box of tissues.

    It's about as meaningful as the girls dancing on vibrating platforms.

    You actually hit on something meaningful.

    "When the right girl comes along, you'll know it."

    Yep, building a family, having kids.

    It's really the only worthwhile thing you can do with a woman.

    Otherwise she's a waste of skin, a waste of oxygen.

    And the men are too.

    Don't take this as an anti-prostitution diatribe.

    Take it as a....a diatribe.

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    prostitutes hurt the person paying and the person being paid almost as much ;] psychologically.

    i cant prove it, but i believe it ;]

    i like this thread.. very much everyone's posts were great. i have nothing to add except.. leave where you are if you can..sometimes a change of scenery really helps.

    go move to the country.. if you're in a city
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